I’m torn, in so many ways, but in this instance about online dating.
Maybe putting myself out there in a dating scene would help me get over my ex, K. Even though I’d like another chance, I’m not sure it’s in my cards…. And I don’t know how to move on and let go of my feelings for him.
I’ve talked to a few guys last year, all of whom I quickly realized were not the guy for me. I think that made me pull back again towards hanging onto K, because I know how good of a guy he was, how genuinely happy I was with him, and how good a relationship can/should be..
So is the best way to get over someone to “get under someone else” as the saying goes? Well… Maybe not get under them! But date… Is online dating a good way to meet good, genuine men?? Is that the right way to get over someone? I don’t know that I think it is, but how else can I move on? Maybe I need to be distracted by someone to “forget” about K.. But would that be just repressing my feelings, sweeping it all under the rug?
Ugh… Obviously I’m torn… Anyone have advice?? I could use a friendly word of advice right about now…